How to nurture both your child and your passions.
When I first became a mother, it felt like my entire world revolved around my baby—which, to be honest, it did for a while. But somewhere along the way, I started to wonder: who am I outside of being a mom? I’m sure many mothers have felt this too.
Motherhood is a beautiful, transformative journey, but it can also challenge your sense of identity. Balancing your role as a mom with maintaining your personal passions is not just important for your well-being—it’s a powerful lesson for your child. After all, don’t we want to teach our kids to pursue their passions while caring for the people they love?
Creating Space for Yourself
Carving out “me time” as a new mom can feel impossible, but even a small window of time for yourself makes a huge difference. I started with just 10 minutes of journaling or meditation while my baby napped. This allowed me to reconnect with my thoughts and emotions.
Consider incorporating something as simple as a baby monitor like the Talk Back Intercom or the Repeating toy so you can step away from the nursery guilt-free, knowing you’ll hear every sound while taking a moment for yourself.
Finding Passion in New Places
Motherhood doesn’t mean letting go of your hobbies; sometimes, it’s about reshaping them to fit your new lifestyle. I always loved reading but found it hard to finish a book with a newborn. So, I switched to listening to audiobooks with the Alarm Clock Radio for Bedroom. Listening to books while folding laundry or feeding my baby helped me stay connected to my love for stories.
This small change didn’t just allow me to keep my passion alive—it also reminded me that I can still grow and learn alongside my child.
Involving Your Child in Your Hobbies
As my baby grew, I discovered ways to involve her in activities I love. We started going for walks together in the Ultra-Lightweight Baby Carrier, which allowed me to get outdoors and exercise while keeping baby close. It was a win-win. The fresh air and movement helped boost my energy, and those walks became moments I cherished.
Doing things you love while involving your baby is not just beneficial for you—it exposes them to new experiences and creates a shared bond over time.
Accepting Help and Building a Support System
Letting go of the belief that you have to “do it all” is crucial for maintaining balance. I learned the value of accepting help, whether it was from family, friends, or using tools that made motherhood easier. The Electric Breast Pump Portable became my best friend for moments when I needed to step away but still wanted to provide breastmilk for my baby. It gave me the freedom to have a bit of time for myself or work on personal projects while ensuring my baby was fed.
Building a support system can also mean surrounding yourself with products that make your day-to-day easier and more efficient, giving you more room to breathe.
Redefining Success as a Mom
Success as a mother isn’t measured by how perfect you are, but by how happy and healthy you and your baby are. If I can be a mom and still hold onto what makes me “me,” I consider that a success. Whether it’s staying passionate about a hobby, getting through a busy day, or even just finishing a cup of coffee before it gets cold—that’s a win.
One product that helped me feel more on top of things was the Diaper Backpack, which kept me organized on-the-go while still looking stylish. It’s small wins like this that make me feel more confident in my ability to juggle both roles.
Incorporating a balance between your identity as a mother and an individual is not just possible—it’s essential. By taking small, intentional steps, you can nurture both yourself and your child, setting an example of how to live a full, passionate life. And along the way, there are tools and products that can make the journey smoother, ensuring that you don’t have to sacrifice your sense of self in this incredible chapter of your life.
